{"id":3607,"date":"2026-04-30T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-04-30T19:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/?p=3607"},"modified":"2026-04-29T18:09:09","modified_gmt":"2026-04-30T01:09:09","slug":"rebuilding-your-identity-after-trauma-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/rebuilding-your-identity-after-trauma-part-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Rebuilding Your Identity After Trauma: Part 2"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-28-2026-at-02_05_35-PM-2-2-1024x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3609\" style=\"width:327px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-28-2026-at-02_05_35-PM-2-2-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-28-2026-at-02_05_35-PM-2-2-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-28-2026-at-02_05_35-PM-2-2-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-28-2026-at-02_05_35-PM-2-2-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-28-2026-at-02_05_35-PM-2-2-600x600.png 600w, https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-28-2026-at-02_05_35-PM-2-2-100x100.png 100w, https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-28-2026-at-02_05_35-PM-2-2.png 1254w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Learning to Trust Yourself Again\u00a0<\/strong><br>After trauma, one of the most difficult things is to rebuild trust in yourself.\u00a0<br><br>You may find yourself overthinking everything, second guessing a lot of decisions, and relying on others to validate how you feel. This is not a flaw, but a response to experiences where your voice was once silenced or dismissed.<br><br>Self trust can be rebuilt over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Being Small<\/strong><br>Rebuilding trust begins with everyday choices:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Listening to your needs for space or rest.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Choosing what you want or need without outside input.\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Saying yes or no based on how you feel.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Each choice you make is a reminder that <strong>your voice matters<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fear vs. Intuition<\/strong><br>After trauma, fear can feel like your intuition. Fear is urgent and loud. Intuition is steady and calm. Learning the difference will take time, but don\u2019t forget that your inner voice is still there with you.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Keep Promises to Yourself<\/strong><br>Trust will grow and become stronger with consistency. Follow through on small commitments:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Listen when something doesn\u2019t feel right.\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Rest when you need to.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Honour your boundaries.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This will help to build a sense of safety within yourself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Allowing Imperfections<\/strong><br>Remember, you do not need to get everything right. Learning, making mistakes and adjusting is the real part of rebuilding trust. You are allowed to grow without judgment.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Reflection Questions<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>What does your intuition feel like?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>When do you trust yourself the most?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>When do you trust yourself the least?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What is one small decision you can make today by yourself?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trusting yourself again is not about being perfect all the time, it is about being connected to your true self.<br><br>The more you deeply listen, choose, and honour yourself, the stronger the trust will become.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"331\" data-src=\"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/WOMEN-CENTER-LOGO-BLUSH-PINK--1024x331.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3584 lazyload\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/331;width:192px;height:auto\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/WOMEN-CENTER-LOGO-BLUSH-PINK--1024x331.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/WOMEN-CENTER-LOGO-BLUSH-PINK--300x97.jpg 300w, https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/WOMEN-CENTER-LOGO-BLUSH-PINK--768x248.jpg 768w, https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/WOMEN-CENTER-LOGO-BLUSH-PINK--600x194.jpg 600w, https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/WOMEN-CENTER-LOGO-BLUSH-PINK-.jpg 1242w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Learning to Trust Yourself Again\u00a0After trauma, one of the most difficult things is to rebuild trust in yourself.\u00a0 You may find yourself overthinking everything, second guessing a lot of decisions, and relying on others to validate how you feel. This is not a flaw, but a response to experiences where your voice was once silenced [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"give_campaign_id":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3607","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3607","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3607"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3607\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3610,"href":"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3607\/revisions\/3610"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3607"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3607"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rlwomencenter.org\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3607"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}